In college I was walking to the practice field (I was in the marching band) when I walked by a new freshman girl. She was cute, so I said hello to her. She respond with a "Hi" back, but with this really cute southern twang that made "Hi" a two syllable word.
That made her even cuter.
A few days later, I twisted my ankle playing wallyball, and had to sit on the sidelines during marching band practice for a couple of weeks. She and a couple of her friends started talking with me during water breaks. One day I asked her if she was going to a recital at the music building that evening. She said that she might, and later that night she did show up and we ended up sitting next to each other.
While a group of us were talking and waiting for the recital to start, she mentioned that she was taking trigonometry. I volunteered to tutor her if she needed any help. (From purely selflless, motives, I assure you.) She looked at me very strangely. I later came to find out that she was shocked that I thought I could tutor her in a math subject. To her I just looked like a big dumb jock.
Anyway, the tutoring began, and after a few weeks, she invited me to go to the Texas State Fair with her and some friends. I agreed, but then asked if she would meet me by the lake at the Zeppa Center (our college rec building - which has now been demolished and replaced) to talk a little bit.
We did, and the conversation was a pretty long one, but basically went like this:
Me: I was in a long relationship, and I'm not really interested in dating just to date. I really plan on marrying the next person I date. If that's not where you are right now (being just 18 and all), I totally understand. But if you want, we can still go to the fair, but just go as friends.
Pause...
Her: Let's be friends.
So that's what we did.
Fast forward a bit...
November 20th will be our 15th wedding anniversary.
I'd say overall that the day by the Zeppa Center turned out to be a good day.
Friday, November 7, 2008
By the Zeppa Center
Categories:
a good day,
relationships,
self
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
4 comments:
That is the great story I have ever heard. Congrats on 15 years.
Thanks Darlene. I'm glad she changed her mind about that whole "friends" thing.
:)
I'd heard the story before, but I loved how you told it here.
Happy Anniversary a little early. :)
Thanks Jeff! I'll try come up with one you haven't heard next time! :)
And thanks for the anniversary wishes.
Post a Comment